In 1984's
Christmas eve my parents saw a beatiful 40-day-old
puppy alone in a square of Rome. They immediately
tried to approach him to understand if he was lost and
suddenly an oriental man showed up, who begged them to
adopt him: his wife, who hated dogs, after a single night
living with the puppy had menaced him to divorce if he
wouldn't get rid of the dog as soon as possible; which
meant he was forced to abandon him on the road if no one
wanted him.My
parents were not convinced of the story so they decided
to walk away; in addition they were not at all
intentioned in taking a dog. Passing by the same place a
couple of hours later, they realized that the notoriuos
oriental man had really abandoned the puppy. What could
they do? Could they have left him there? Certainly not,
so they decided to take the puppy with them, hoping they
could find him another home.
Of
course, after only few minutes that Oscar had entered our
home we were already terribly fond of him and we started
organizing ourselves for this unexpected ''arrival''. No
need to say that was the best Christmas I could imagine...
Life with Oscar as a puppy was very animated:
he was untirable and bringing him to the park was a joy
for us. We suddenly realized he had a particular
passion for water (his Labrador descent was showing up),
which he tried to sneak in on any occasion. We never had
the heart to stop him from having a bath in all the
fountains of the park!! But he used to push himself even
further: I remember the day when he was pulling the leash
near to strangling himself because he absolutely wanted
to dive in one of the twins fountains of St.Peter Square...
Thus, when Easter break came, my
brother and I decided to bring Oscar (he had 5 months)
for a few days at our grandparents' house, in a seaside
resort near Rome.
I
can't explain Oscar's joy when he saw the sea... sand...
He was hyperexcited and we spent some wonderful days!! On
Easter day also our parents came and altogether we stayed
at the beach appreciating the tepid april sun. The beach
was empty and Oscar was playing happily.
Suddenly, Oscar
started running towards the beach exit. What was in his
mind? What was attracting him near the road? We never
understood. We called him, but he went on his way; we had
just started educating him and had still scarce results
when calling him... We tried catching up with him, but he
was already on the road...
It was almost
lunch time and the road was deserted, however a car
passed the moment Oscar tried to cross the road... None
of us saw the scene as we came the instant after the
accident: a red Fiat 128 was running away and Oscar was
laying on the edge of the road. He seemed without life.
While we where
running towards the veterinary (Easter Sunday!) Oscar
recovered and curled himself near me seeking comfort; it
was obvious he was aching, particularly in a foward leg.
We were able to find a veterinary that on the moment took
care of seeing if Oscar had any internal hemorrhage. He
injected him a medicine and we brought him back home,
watching him constantly.
Once the first 24
hours where past we calmed down: Oscar's life was not in
danger! Thus we started taking care of the forward-left
leg that Oscar dragged. The diagnosis of our veterinary
in Rome was not comforting: radial nerve paralysis. With
the latter we reconstructed the accident: the car had not
gone over him, but had hitten him violently on a side,
causing the nerve lesion. Oscar must have passed out for
the pain. Would it have been a bone fracture it would
have been simpler, but with the nerve there were no
remedies... The veterinary adviced us to amputate the
leg, assuring us that Oscar would have lived a normal
life.
We remained
sceptical on this option and we consulted many other
veterinaries and clinic universities, but the diagnose
and ''cure'' where always the same. Successively we found a veterinary that gave
us some hope: with an operation there was a chance of
saving the leg; we decided to trust him and Oscar had the
operation. The latter resulted needless: he was operated
4 times during the year, but his conditions remained the
same.
His life during
that period of time was always playful and lively, so we
had to bandage his leg to make sure he wouldn't wound
himself dragging his leg while running. I cant explain how complicated it was: Oscar
was always lively and exhuberant, the bandage lasting
always for few time. Thus we did all we could to find a
better solution, making him a leather boot which lasted
surely longer.
All of this,
however, dint last long: also the sticks used to keep his
leg straight ended wounding him more and his conditions
where not better at all, until the point that there was a
necrosis risk: at that point we had nothing to do but
amputate his leg.
The decision was
very tormented; my mother and brother thought it was
better to directly put him down, they couldn't imagine
such a lively dog living without a leg... My father and
I, instead, insisted to have him operated; after all
there was always time to take such drastic decisions. In
addition all the veterinaries assured us that he would
have resumed his lively habits. They also told us that
many other people in this cases unjustifiedly decide for
the euthanasia.
The leg was amputated. It was incredible to
see Oscar walk in the house immediately after the
surgery, still being dizzy from the anaesthesia. And the
day after he was already able to run and play! It
took more time for us to get use to his new ''look'' than
him finding his usual exhuberance.
His new ''look''
also determined a constant in our life with Oscar: nearly
every person that saw him asked us what had happened to
him. For nearly 17 years we had to repeat always the same
story... many times a day!!
Exhausting, although comprensible...
In any
case we have always considered Oscar as a normal dog. And
he was! He peed raising his back leg (staying in
equilibrium on two legs!), ran, played, swam...
everything! He has always been with us everywhere, from
restaurants to hotels, from the beach to the mountains,
and we never had problems of any kind. The sea especially
has always remained a constant rendezvouz in his life: on
the beach he was always lively, either swimming or making
holes. Even when he was old he maintained the same
vitalility, and it was hard for us trying to let him rest
once in a while!
It's impossible to
describe what Oscar has been able to give us in many
years of vitality, power and energy that he always had
until the last of his days!
 He had
his own ways of greeting us: not only he wagged his tail,
jumped and groined with the typical facial mimic of these
moments; he also did a strange grimace, like when dogs
show their teeth in sign of aggression, but raising his
lip only on one side, rotating his head at the same time...
really funny! We used to say he was ''laughing'', because
the ritual around the grimace seemed to signify such.
At the age of 10
he became... brother! Some family friends gave us a
dachshund dog puppy, Cora. At first Oscar was very
jealous, but soon he got endeared of that wild ''little
sausage''. We couldn't even scold her without having him
bark on us, protecting her.
We were lucky that Oscar has always been in
good health. Only in the last two years of his life (between
16 and 18 years) he started having different infirmities
and senile deambulation problems; not so much for the
forward leg, always very robust, as with the two back
legs: the neurological problems that would lead to his
death where starting to show up... But nothing that had
to do with his triped condition.
During that time we had a shoemaker make us a
special leather breeching with which we helped him at
first climb the stairs and later also walking. Later on
we found a way to make him tire less: the structure of a
baby carriage, with a wood board on the lower part. This
allowed him to go around comfortably laid down, walking
only now and then.
Dominating from
his carriage he liked looking around and meeting other
dogs; even if he didnt walk for long (and progressively
always less until not walking at all in his last times)
he was constantly interested in everything and he was
always happy and lively!  He was
always able to obtain morsels from all shops in the
neighbourhood: groceries, bars... and he would never
continue his short walk without having first munched
something good at every leg!!
On the day of his
seventeenth birthday (unfortunately he never got to the
eighteenth...) he stealthily savaged the cake!!
When Oscar died he
left us an unfillable emptiness. But we are aware of
having received a precious gift: a wonderful dog that has
filled our life for many years, giving us an immense
fondness.
And he left us a
really special heritage: the intimate convinction that
life is always worth to be lived...
| Goodbye
Oscar. 
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| Oscar always
barked when he heard this music on TV: |
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